How would you answer the following?
I was asked to do so last week and let me tell you, it wasn't easy. I opted for Self Employed and Other, where I continued to type the following: "Small biz owner, social media coordinator and stay at home mom." The reality is that I could have selected WAY more than one out of each category....
Last week, I was reading
this blog post over at
BeckyandHollee.com, it is about job titles and descriptions. Then I came across
this blog post at
PittsburghCreative.com/blog, it too is about the art of introduction. (By the way, both posts are great and deserve a read.) The topic really struck me (I even commented on Becky and Hollee's blog complete with a typo - GO ME!). Then I realized that I really STRUGGLE with this quite often. I mean, look at my description on my about me page here, it's a list. I'm a family member and wear many hats under that one umbrella. I'm a mom, and we all know how many hats that encompasses, chef/nurse/maid/teacher just to name a few. I also have hobbies that I enjoy and those are a whole new set of hats I wear (and make lol). In addition to all the above, I also run our small businesses (insert a whole slew of new hats under this umbrella) AND I take care of a client and their social networking needs.
See why I struggle? I can't easily say, "Oh, well, I'm a stay-at-home-mom, or I'm an accountant, or I'm a teacher, or I work at Any Favorite Business from 9am to 5pm then I go home to my family and spend quality time with them while we cook dinner and play games and put them to bed to later relax with my husband in front of the TV." (Yes, I realize that is pretty idealistic but a girl can have dreams right?). Do I wish for this idealistic image? Some days, yes. Do I like wearing my many hats, most days that answer is a resounding YES (this past Friday for example, not so much).
Usually, no classification is needed. I do my jobs, I wear my not-so-fancy and sometimes fancy hats and I'm happy with that. But on those rare occasions when I meet someone new or have to introduce myself to a group of people for the first time, what do I say? Do I start with a warning, "Hey look, this isn't a quick one-liner, pull up a chair, a drink and I'll tell you all about it?" Chances are, no. The reality is in that particular setting, I probably can exclude some of my jobs titles. But it's the on-the-spot thinking that causes me strife. How do I tell someone what I do in a quick, informative and memorable way?
In those situations, my inner dialog usually sounds like this, "Will it strike a chord with this professional woman if I mention that I stay at home AND do all these other wonderful things?" Or, "Should I exclude the social media stuff with this older person?" Or, "Will the mom on the playground think I am nuts because I won't shut up if I tell her all about my many hats?" {insert awkward thinking pause}.
I guess the nuts and bolts of this particular post is that I need to find a title and introduction. I need my own perfectly honed response to, "Nice to meet you and what do you do?" I've been asked to speak to a few professional groups about social media and networking. Before those speaking engagements, I need to find an answer to this question. I would LOVE to hear your suggestions or examples. So I'm asking: Do you wear a lot of hats? How do YOU introduce yourself?